who is a prostituteBy Anointing

chapter 2:

In my last post I discussed the topic “ who is a prostitute” and now I am going to talk more on it and of cause have a chat with these so called prostitutes and finally to advice the readers on the best ways to speak to these people…

you don't always hit a child at every occasion that the child misbehaves and still expect the child to behave him or herself.  I have these little girls that will never obey you if you speak to them with a mean and aggressive voice, instead of listening to you they take your word to be that of a joker.  The same goes for adults, forget the fact that we are higher in age, the truth still remains that we sometimes still act more immature than the so called kids.

We ask our men to be cuddle us, kids from their parents and prostitutes still deeply seek for this deep in there heart but for the fear of getting too attached to these strangers who will leave them early in the morning they will keep on hiding there natural women instincts, desires and feelings.

Most times they dream to have the life we have but they just cant because having that life might be too much of a loss to them. Their dreadest fear being that the world might actually not be able to accept them without mentioning there weakness at the slightest of every provocation.

Will they be able to live in marriage or are they naturally made for night business, they question themselves.

Will my husband be able to trust me? What will be his reaction when he sees me outside with a different man, Will he buy my truth over that of the numerous outside tongues? What of my kids, will they be able to cope with the fact that there mom was once a night time hustler? What  kind of gist will the neighbors feed them concerning me? And of course I might actually be a source of shame to my family instead of a blessing.

The truth is that no one is a saint even the so called virgins……...please  I am not criticizing you all. I love the fact that you are able to keep yourself and will love it the more if you will last till your wedding night when your husband will place your on the beautifully sparkling mattrex and take your  treasure.

I am just saying that we should act more human and stop criticizing and judging people based on their weaknesses. We should remember that these people might actually have more  good in them to give to the world than you can ever dream of.

Instead of criticizing them on SNS and embarrassing them in occasions I will advice that you should rather look for a way to drive there heart to more lucrative businesses than ‘prostitution’ (for those that joined the business for financial reasons), and then also look for a way to open a counseling section for those that are in for it to satisfy their sexual urges. You can never resolve an issue by shouting, and never can you do that by embarrassing them; rather maybe you just need to embrace dialogue. All you need to do is to sit down and tell them what you think without letting others hear you too.